Itâs tricky – sometimes itâs better to hold fire and sort the challenge out in our own minds, or if we ask we get a negative reply .. or a âpoo-pooâ reply it wonât work, silly thought etc â thatâs pretty depressing … but if itâs people you trust, or asking guidance about an idea â doing some research .. then it is definitely a good thing. What would you do if you were me? And let’s teach each other, and learn from each other, and be Sources of Insight for each other! I plan to make a positive impact very quickly." If you go invisible and just do creepy stuff, you are creepy by nature. jakej But obviously being fear-based does not help either. A good reminder that every person knows something we don’t, and asking for some feedback is a good way to grow. Hi J.D., love your writing on this piece! Finally, one morning, you woke up with hair all over your face. The thought that came to my mind as I was reading was, “Teach me!”. What Would You Do About You (If You Were Me) Lyrics: What would you do about you / If you were me / Follow your heart or your head / Which would it be? i think it will be of benefit to think that way about your skills, just as you said, i can open our eyes to new possibilities @ Hilary — Good points. I think you can just keep on top of your breast exams and consult with your doctor and you will be ahead of the game. ð. ': randomised trial of psychiatrists' personal v. professional perspectives on treatment recommendations. You wished night after night, hoping to be a girl. You can always do what you want, but it’s nice to get input from people with a different perspective, and reduce your blind sides, and open doors to possibilities. on November 17, 2020. @ Eduard — That’s the key, getting the right feedback from the right people and testing it out. With your own identity, this can be even more an issue since you can’t buy a new one. While it’s tempting to aspire to ride a bike (figuratively, of course)the way someone else does who appears to have mastered it, I always think it’s pretty darn amazing to live life the way we want; the way we’re compelled to. But we canât live with this fear. And – that question – a very good one. If I were to communicate with animals, I'd probably survive in the wild. This is one of those cases where the story seemed to be the right medium, without getting in the way. Matched on Catalog number, Publisher, and first word of titles. They are 3.5mil truncated eliptical, 2.3mil truncated conical, 2.8mil truncated conical, 3.3mil truncated conical. They are terrified to ever be wrong. @ Nadia — The door is always open ð Thank you. As if I would never let go. Learning a new thing is pretty exciting plus its an upgrade to your skills. The counselor either revealed what she would do (Personal Disclosure), what other patients have done (Professional Disclosure), or deflected the question (No Disclosure). @ JB — I think the simplest metaphor is to think of it as a team of people in your corner. I agree with the comments above: open-mindedness, learning, asking the right questions to the right people and taking what matters in a given context. This underlies the importance of having a good mentor, but also asking yourself what level of control is appropriate based on your trust level and consequences. @ Rob — I like your point about even if he broke the bike it’s still worth finding the lesson and looking for what’s possible. I personally find it very satisfying to learn through sharing. My Best-Seller in Productivity and Time Management, Getting Results the Agile Way: A Word from the Author, You Need Your North Star To Find Your Focus, 101 of the Greatest Insights for Work and Life, Trends for 2013: The Rise of the Entrepreneur. LOL!). Most kids at her age, those much older than she, and more adults than I care to count, donât possess the emotional intelligence (AKA Maturity) to ask such questions because they think they have it all figured out. Permalink: Even if I â¦ Funny story JD. I feel abandoned by society. As one of my friends put it, “I die when I stop learning.” There definitely is a skill + art + luck for getting the right people in our corner. It’s amazing the levels of consciousness to tap into we don’t even realize are there. If I were you, Id have to choose the 2.0 project (given the idea that you still don't know VS2005). I think it’s also about always looking at feedback as input. Uploaded by Mad Men Season 3 Episode 11 Quotes. A flip side to this is to know that each of us has an identity and that we should remember to own our own lives. You put it so well, it is the open mindedness that helps us make the most out of life. I can see some people in my life that in sharing a problem I have they can give me ideas that I may not have thought up, but sometimes there can also be the support behind something that can also be quite nice too. So yes… Teach me! Digitized at 78 revolutions per minute. Currently I am 21 with no job experience, not going to college or uni, been at home gaming the past years, I m not a likable person, I m very quiet, people seem to be pissed off about it everywhere I go. It was Friday so I figured I might up the edutainment factor ð It’s funny how an old guitar can play so well. Feb 12, 2008 #2 Do you really love him? Our clients want and need real advice from someone they trust and believe in. You painted a great picture, J.D., thanks. I loved the symbolism and what you learned from the experience. I must preface my comments here with the following caveat: I am a 27 year IT veteran. During my day job, I synthesize a lot of ideas and feedback, so I’ve learned to put feedback on context … the source, the perspective, carry the useful forward … etc. Discuss something you would change about your educational background, not your work history. I think what helps is casting a wide net and asking multiple people as a sounding board. I know I am late to this post so apologies for the delay. The preferred versions suggested by an audio engineer at George Blood, L.P. have been copied to have the more friendly filenames. The question âWhat would you do if you were me, doctor?â does not motivate psychiatrists to leave their professional recommendation role and to take a more personal perspective. You've gone to the psychiatrist, who has asked you a lot of questions over the co Pill B is an oral hypoglycemic to lower blood sugar in Type 2 diabetes. When you are interviewing for an internal position within your company, you may be asked what you will do if you don't get the job.The interviewer wants to know whether you are concerned about just the advancement opportunity or the company. 'What would you do if you were me, doctor? The animals will guide the way, give me food, sacrifice themselves, comfort me, and give me advice. It takes some time to find that voice and listen to it above the level of the emotional drama that happens with any human being. Never be afraid to end a meeting a call with âNow, you havenât asked me what I would do if I were you, so here it is â¦.â. I understand your health fears. In any rate, it really is such a great question…, Reminds me of the time someone came to our house, picked up my old guitar — that only had 5 strings on it at the time — yet he played it better than I ever had at that point 9and probably have to date.). Feb 12, 2008 23 20. Who would have though you could play two saxaphones at a time? @ Jannie — Thank you. I have gone to job fairs but only to see what company's are there so I know where NOT to apply at if I were looking for a job (I haven't worked at the same place the whole time but I have not been unemployed for over 20 years). I think there’s a knack for learning all that you can, from all who you can and it gets easier with practice. As I scooped my jaw up off the ground, and took the handlebars of my bike, I was silent.Â I looked at my bike through new eyes that day.Â I had never known what was possible. Just like the sun and the moon, we are thousands of miles away from each other. ' I've heard most (maybe all) who have had breast cancer say pain is not a symptom. Confused! I really hate being stagnant on my programming skills. @ Belinda — I like being the captain of my ship and I’m always willing to learn how to sail my ship better when others will show me how. Plus, to be blunt, those types of people usually are not that successful because successful people usually are happy and willing to share their wisdom. Technical Notes: Dupe of barcode GBIA0201358B, but this side is in better condition. If you go invisible and do some creepy stuff AND some good stuff, there is at least some balance to your actions. Write CSS OR LESS and hit save. thanks J.D, keep up the good work ð. "When we were speaking earlier, about sales targets in this position, you mentioned that most new sales professionals hit their KPI's after 120 days. See what's new with book lending at the Internet Archive, Performer: JOHNNY BONDWriter: Fred Rose; Bond. Maybe that’s the best metaphor. If you are asked what you would do differently in your past, you have a few choices: Say that you would not change anything, because your experiences have helped you grow. I bet you also had a friend who would fall as soon as he would get on the bike ð, What a great story wonderfully told that got me glued to the screen. Hindsight is always 20/20. The recording on the other side of this disc: CIMARRON. I agree with the previous comments reflecting on choosing wisely and intuitively on who to look to for those boundary-stretching choices. Or would it be really eye-opening (and challenging). Work Experience: You wish you had looked for a more challenging job than the local burger joint. Have caution vs fear. I think an internal process is best when you are willing to try new things, while still having some caution to understand the possible consequences of a change. What would you do if you were me? I think part of the art of getting the right feedback, is asking the right questions, and asking the right people. Hi JD .. youâre right most of the time we never ask .. what do you think, or ask for othersâ opinions on an issue. As I think about it, I keep thinking – would I like what other people might say??? Matrix number: HCO 2894Catalog number: 20502, Other IDs from the record include: (HCO 2894). I love the story you’ve shared about your bike, and relating that to today. If you were deemed âappropriateâ would you acquiesce to either procedure? What would you do if you were here with me,' you asked. I do this all the time with learning instruments. Of course, as exposed in previous comments, it has to involve the right people, in the right context. If you're looking for a high-quality camera, you don't need to spend a ton of cash, nor do you need to buy the latest and greatest new product on the market. Mendel R(1), Hamann J, Traut-Mattausch E, Bühner M, Kissling W, Frey D. Author information: (1)Department of Psychiatry, Technische Universität München, München, Germany. Insecure people and those who think they know it all, are not going to go far. I was blown away. Assuming it’s from the right person. He hopped on my bike and then paused as if sizing it up.Â Then, with confidence and grace, he rolled slowly forward and balanced on the front wheel.Â He thenÂ started to hop on the front wheel several times, before spinning 180 degrees.Â He then went backwards on my bike and lifted up the front wheel.Â He then proceeded to hop up and down on the back wheel.Â He then spun my bike in the air 360 degrees, as if he was one with my bike. Open mindedness is vital is making the most out of life. Explain what you would like to get out of a job, but also be sure to consider some of the benefits of work experience even with an unskilled job. Also building your own house would be easy as resources would be in significant supply. You've been at the same job for 9 years. He peddled away fast, then turned around with amazing speed … and he hit a jump.Â As he glided through the air on my bike, higher than I ever saw my bike go, he glanced at me, with a knowing look.Â He rode my bike up to me with blinding speed, slammed on the brakes, and slid the back tire in a wide circle to a fiery, screaming halt.Â When the dust cloud cleared, he had my bike up on it’s back tire.Â He gave the handle-bars a quick spin, the sun glistened off my spokes, then he snatched handle-bars to a perfect halt, much the way a drummer might catch their twirling drumstick. In our latest buying guide we've selected some cameras that might be a bit older but still offer a lot of bang for the buck. Pill A is a âstatinâ for high cholesterol. But I also think it’s equally important to ask: @ Lance — Thank you. One of my mentors told me it’s important to periodically surprise people ð, @ Liz — It’s like adding to a buffet of possibilities and choosing whatever floats your boat ð, @ Jimmy — Heck, I’m with you … “Teach me!”. Some people take pleasure in bringing others down so I always avoid such people. @Sara Ant I think it matters some how much you have to invest, you are going to be able to purchase more houses faster in the Midwest if you have 50K thank in Cali. Loved this post. Embrace your strengths and experience. That is stability which a lot of people don't have. In my case I wasnât able to tell my mom how much I loved her. Learn about yourself - try my quiz now! Being an intuitive person which I know you are, I am sure you can filter through the advice that is really valuable and applicable and the ones that you should ignore. Equally important is the fact that you have to ask the right people. Those are the two points that come to mind as there have been times where I’ve had my mind blown by people who then help me to get to the awesomeness that I thought would be so hard to have but really wasn’t once I knew the path to get there. Classes: You wish you had taken calculus instead of an easier math class.Be specific and explain why taking calculus would have been a good idea. âWhat would you do if you were me?â¦â I listen with an open mind, as they tell me what they might do if they had my skills, my experience, my capabilities, and my situation. At a deep level, there is some inner wisdom that knows if a change is positive or has the potential of being positive for us. Make no mistake, being invisible means there are some shady things you HAVE to do - come on, you're invisible! The world goes round with all our ideas and thereâs always another angle somewhere … Hilary, PS I did take on board your offer! CTRL + SPACE for auto-complete. Does bring up the issue of trust for me. @ Alik — Thank you. If you expect an honest answer to that question, think again. You can learn from others successes or train-wrecks. + First of all, I would hug you and hug you tight. I think he got married because you where far away from him and poor communication. Your question, “What would you do if you were me?â¦”, is a more mature version of the child-like enthusiasm your story moved me to exclaim. I’d very much love to ride your bike if you asked me to, first to teach you what more you can do with it, and secondly for myself to learn new tricks if I can! Terms of Service (last updated 12/31/2014). When she was suffering with her headache she told me she loved me and my sister, but because I didnât want to scare her I said âI know, but youâre going to be fine.â If yes, we all human beings sometimes do mistakes.Give him another chance. I remember as a kid I ran fast whether I had the right sneakers or not, and yet, now I find myself analyzing sneaker options that probably don’t really matter. JD, What would you do if you were me?ã®meã®é¨åã¯ï¼ä»¥ä¸ã®ããã«Iãä½¿ãäººããã¾ãï¼ What would you do if you were I? I currently invest in the midwest market and am really loving it. Cases where you can watch someone else and what they do with the same resources you have are great to learn from (like this case). @ Lana — That’s right … the art of the effective filter ð, @ farouk — Thank you. First of all, this was an awesome post. When I was a kid, I had a bike that I thought I could ride pretty well.Â After all, it was my bike and I rode it every day.Â I knew its quirks, I knew its strengths, I knew its weaknesses.Â Or so I thought.Â One day, a friend asked to try my bike. 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