Permalink: Even if I ⦠thanks J.D, keep up the good work ð. I think what helps is casting a wide net and asking multiple people as a sounding board. I must preface my comments here with the following caveat: I am a 27 year IT veteran. other times, it opens my eyes to possibilities I ⦠Make no mistake, being invisible means there are some shady things you HAVE to do - come on, you're invisible! These were recorded flat and then also equalized with Turnover: 400.0, Rolloff: -12.0. A good reminder that every person knows something we don’t, and asking for some feedback is a good way to grow. On this test, you choose between several options of what you would do in given situations, such as if you were being robbed, or were trapped in a building that was on fire, or had farted in public (gasp! You put it so well, it is the open mindedness that helps us make the most out of life. Learn about yourself - try my quiz now! You look at yourself, and see you have a bigger chest. Please advice me,what wd u do if you were in my shoes. i mean from your heart? Most kids at her age, those much older than she, and more adults than I care to count, donât possess the emotional intelligence (AKA Maturity) to ask such questions because they think they have it all figured out. If this guy had broken my bike, it probably would have been worth it to see what’s possible. Greetings All! Just looking at Brian Wilson from the Beach Boys can show the effect of picking the wrong person to help and giving up too much control. @ Lana — That’s right … the art of the effective filter ð, @ farouk — Thank you. @ Hilary — Good points. As I scooped my jaw up off the ground, and took the handlebars of my bike, I was silent. I looked at my bike through new eyes that day. I had never known what was possible. I really value the people that bring out my best. In our latest buying guide we've selected some cameras that might be a bit older but still offer a lot of bang for the buck. So yes… Teach me! Never be afraid to end a meeting a call with âNow, you havenât asked me what I would do if I were you, so here it is â¦.â. He hopped on my bike and then paused as if sizing it up. Then, with confidence and grace, he rolled slowly forward and balanced on the front wheel. He then started to hop on the front wheel several times, before spinning 180 degrees. He then went backwards on my bike and lifted up the front wheel. He then proceeded to hop up and down on the back wheel. He then spun my bike in the air 360 degrees, as if he was one with my bike. I love the story you’ve shared about your bike, and relating that to today. So you've finally made the leap and sought out help for a psychiatric or mental health concern in your life. Size 10.0 Source 78 User_cleaned Kevin Coupe User_metadataentered Robert Boggs User_transferred Robert Boggs 'What would you do if you were me, doctor? With the animals, I could learn more about the wild and sneak out the house more to walk in the woods. I was blown away. I personally find it very satisfying to learn through sharing. I struggle with that too. Pill B is an oral hypoglycemic to lower blood sugar in Type 2 diabetes. on November 17, 2020. You painted a great picture, J.D., thanks. Assuming it’s from the right person. I would do the same, but you need to understand that AK is not even a pair and in any case you need to win a coin, if you are not ready for this, ⦠Explain what you would like to get out of a job, but also be sure to consider some of the benefits of work experience even with an unskilled job. @ Nadia — The door is always open ð Thank you. Mendel R(1), Hamann J, Traut-Mattausch E, Bühner M, Kissling W, Frey D. Author information: (1)Department of Psychiatry, Technische Universität München, München, Germany. In any rate, it really is such a great question…, Reminds me of the time someone came to our house, picked up my old guitar — that only had 5 strings on it at the time — yet he played it better than I ever had at that point 9and probably have to date.). If you expect an honest answer to that question, think again. @ Jannie — Thank you. JD, I do this all the time with learning instruments. Jimmy Sterling If You Were Me What Would You Do â 1323378 Records ⦠A flip side to this is to know that each of us has an identity and that we should remember to own our own lives. Four stylii were used to transfer this record. I agree with the comments above: open-mindedness, learning, asking the right questions to the right people and taking what matters in a given context. @ Eduard — That’s the key, getting the right feedback from the right people and testing it out. O. omba Member. 78rpm Records Digitized by George Blood, L.P. Your question, “What would you do if you were me?⦔, is a more mature version of the child-like enthusiasm your story moved me to exclaim. Maybe that’s the best metaphor. What would I do if I were You? Hi J.D., love your writing on this piece! I remember as a kid I ran fast whether I had the right sneakers or not, and yet, now I find myself analyzing sneaker options that probably don’t really matter. Learning a new thing is pretty exciting plus its an upgrade to your skills. Mad Men Season 3 Episode 11 Quotes. I really hate being stagnant on my programming skills. My Best-Seller in Productivity and Time Management, Getting Results the Agile Way: A Word from the Author, You Need Your North Star To Find Your Focus, 101 of the Greatest Insights for Work and Life, Trends for 2013: The Rise of the Entrepreneur. And let’s teach each other, and learn from each other, and be Sources of Insight for each other! r.mendel@lrz.tum.de I think it’s also about always looking at feedback as input. When you are interviewing for an internal position within your company, you may be asked what you will do if you don't get the job.The interviewer wants to know whether you are concerned about just the advancement opportunity or the company. Our clients want and need real advice from someone they trust and believe in. I leave it to you to take what you find to be useful from the experience, but I think both can get away from it with new Insights. You could get your friend to buy a single food item (e. g an apple) and it would last you for a while. I've heard most (maybe all) who have had breast cancer say pain is not a symptom. This is one of those cases where the story seemed to be the right medium, without getting in the way. What would you do if you were here with me,' you asked. If you switched fields, mention that you wish you switched earlier. Terms of Service (last updated 12/31/2014). @ Rob — I like your point about even if he broke the bike it’s still worth finding the lesson and looking for what’s possible. I suppose part of the challenge here is to see who are the people you would trust enough to ask this question, right? When she was suffering with her headache she told me she loved me and my sister, but because I didnât want to scare her I said âI know, but youâre going to be fine.â Feb 12, 2008 #2 Do you really love him? An open minded person is more easily inclined to learning how they can be better. With your own identity, this can be even more an issue since you can’t buy a new one. I agree with the previous comments reflecting on choosing wisely and intuitively on who to look to for those boundary-stretching choices. I currently invest in the midwest market and am really loving it. But I also think it’s equally important to ask: That is stability which a lot of people don't have. If you're looking for a high-quality camera, you don't need to spend a ton of cash, nor do you need to buy the latest and greatest new product on the market. We live our lives not someone else and while someone else may give a useful suggestion, I’m pretty sure this isn’t recommending a co-dependent relationship, right? Hi JD .. youâre right most of the time we never ask .. what do you think, or ask for othersâ opinions on an issue. LOL!). I bet you also had a friend who would fall as soon as he would get on the bike ð, What a great story wonderfully told that got me glued to the screen. What Would You Do About You (If You Were Me) Lyrics: What would you do about you / If you were me / Follow your heart or your head / Which would it be? Currently I am 21 with no job experience, not going to college or uni, been at home gaming the past years, I m not a likable person, I m very quiet, people seem to be pissed off about it everywhere I go. You wished night after night, hoping to be a girl. âWhat would you do if you were me?â¦â I listen with an open mind, as they tell me what they might do if they had my skills, my experience, my capabilities, and my situation. Taking advice and considering it is not really risky, though our egos often think it is. The world goes round with all our ideas and thereâs always another angle somewhere … Hilary, PS I did take on board your offer! Feb 12, 2008 23 20. Being an intuitive person which I know you are, I am sure you can filter through the advice that is really valuable and applicable and the ones that you should ignore. @ Lance — Thank you. Technical Notes: Dupe of barcode GBIA0201358B, but this side is in better condition. Life’s a chess board, but we aren’t always in the best position to see our next best move. I feel abandoned by society. It may be a simple lecture, a demo, assistance and so on. If I were to communicate with animals, I'd probably survive in the wild. As one of my friends put it, “I die when I stop learning.” There definitely is a skill + art + luck for getting the right people in our corner. "When we were speaking earlier, about sales targets in this position, you mentioned that most new sales professionals hit their KPI's after 120 days. Have caution vs fear. Work Experience: You wish you had looked for a more challenging job than the local burger joint. @ JB — I think the simplest metaphor is to think of it as a team of people in your corner. Pill A is a âstatinâ for high cholesterol. Great analogy. Open mindedness is vital is making the most out of life. The question âWhat would you do if you were me, doctor?â does not motivate psychiatrists to leave their professional recommendation role and to take a more personal perspective. You can learn from others successes or train-wrecks. Everything you did was girly. This person could have also taken the bike and broken it. Plus, to be blunt, those types of people usually are not that successful because successful people usually are happy and willing to share their wisdom. You can always do what you want, but it’s nice to get input from people with a different perspective, and reduce your blind sides, and open doors to possibilities. You've been at the same job for 9 years. Dialogue was identical in all surveys, except for a final response to the question: "What would you do if you were me?" I dearly think teaching is a great way of learning. I know many women how had breast cancer, caught early and they are all fine, still here. Also building your own house would be easy as resources would be in significant supply. I understand your health fears. I know I am late to this post so apologies for the delay. The recording on the other side of this disc: CIMARRON. Within each of us is a unique set of capabilities, persuasions and passions and no one else can manifest those to create the magnificent blend resulting from living authentically. Confused! You've gone to the psychiatrist, who has asked you a lot of questions over the co I think he got married because you where far away from him and poor communication. It takes some time to find that voice and listen to it above the level of the emotional drama that happens with any human being. If you go invisible and do some creepy stuff AND some good stuff, there is at least some balance to your actions. It’s amazing the levels of consciousness to tap into we don’t even realize are there. I listen with an open mind, as they tell me what they might do if they had my skills, my experience, my capabilities, and my situation. Sometimes it re-affirms I’m making the most of what I’ve got. other times, it opens my eyes to possibilities I never imagined. At a deep level, there is some inner wisdom that knows if a change is positive or has the potential of being positive for us. Who would have though you could play two saxaphones at a time? Uploaded by It becomes a trusted board of advisors. Those are the two points that come to mind as there have been times where I’ve had my mind blown by people who then help me to get to the awesomeness that I thought would be so hard to have but really wasn’t once I knew the path to get there. Embrace your strengths and experience. The counselor either revealed what she would do (Personal Disclosure), what other patients have done (Professional Disclosure), or deflected the question (No Disclosure). If yes, we all human beings sometimes do mistakes.Give him another chance. Insecure people and those who think they know it all, are not going to go far. Making changes based on that advice can be more risky, but having a good internal process helps with this. In my case I wasnât able to tell my mom how much I loved her. Matched on Catalog number, Publisher, and first word of titles. Loved this post. He peddled away fast, then turned around with amazing speed … and he hit a jump. As he glided through the air on my bike, higher than I ever saw my bike go, he glanced at me, with a knowing look. He rode my bike up to me with blinding speed, slammed on the brakes, and slid the back tire in a wide circle to a fiery, screaming halt. When the dust cloud cleared, he had my bike up on it’s back tire. He gave the handle-bars a quick spin, the sun glistened off my spokes, then he snatched handle-bars to a perfect halt, much the way a drummer might catch their twirling drumstick. One that many do not get the opportunity to do. 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